Iteration And Pushing
Iteration and pushing are the cornerstones for driving success. You have to figure out new things with perseverance and an eye toward the goal. Refining based on feedback is how winning is done.
We learn how to be world class in sports, music, drama and art the same way. There's some initial talent and interest. Then we iterate on the same movement, speech and scripts relentlessly until we rise above the noise of mediocrity.
My kids get frustrated early when they can't do something well. I ask them, "Have you tried it 200 times?" It realigns their expectations quickly for themselves. They are learning the process of failing forward and iterating. We have applied the same approach to piano, soccer, writing, and making money. They are learning the secret to success. Iteration is necessary and not as scary as we may build up in our minds. It is pure work and desire which helps us to find the path towards perfection.